Moving house is a challenging experience, especially when children are involved.
Kids thrive on routine and familiarity and moving just one suburb over can be a big deal for them. However, with careful planning and a positive attitude, you can help your children navigate the challenges of moving and make the transition to a new home as smooth as possible.
Here are our top tips for managing a move with kids:
1. Open communication
From the very start, it’s important to talk to your children about why, when and where you are moving. If possible, bring them house hunting or along on a pre-move visit so they know what to expect. You might like to take them on a visual tour of the new area, show them pictures of the new house, and discuss all the exciting things they can look forward to in their new community. This can help them understand what is happening and why, reducing the anxiety they might feel about the unknown.
2. Stay positive
Moving can be stressful and children are very perceptive and will pick up on your emotions. It’s important to remain positive and schedule family time, such as a walk or special dinner, so your children don’t feel forgotten. It’s normal for them to have a negative reaction to moving but you can help by listening to their concerns, responding honestly and providing plenty of reassurance.
3. Involve them
Involve your children in planning and packing as much as possible. To a child, their world is made up of possessions so it helps to remind them that when you get to the new house, all their belongings will be there. Involving them in the process can help them feel more in control and connected to their new home and community.
4. Say goodbye
If you are moving a long distance, saying goodbye can be tough for everyone. Children need closure too, so plan a going away party and reassure your children they will be able to call their friends and, if possible, visit them.
5. Make them feel at home
When you arrive at your new home, prioritise setting up your children’s room first so they can start to feel at home and comfortable in their new environment. Keeping their schedule as normal as possible can also help children feel more at ease and provide a sense of stability. Additionally, being available to talk through their new experiences can help children process their emotions and adjust to their new environment.
Once you have moved into your new home, take the time to explore your new community. Visit local parks, restaurants, and attractions to get a feel for the area. This can help your children feel more comfortable in their new surroundings and excited about their new home.
At the end of the day, moving can be a challenging experience for kids, but by following these tips you can help them adjust to their new surroundings and thrive in their new community.
At Prudential Real Estate, we understand that moving is a big decision, and we want to make the process as smooth as possible for you and your family. Our team of experienced professionals can provide you with guidance and support throughout the entire moving process, from selling your house, finding your dream home and synchronising the move. Contact us today to learn more about how we can help you with your move.
Prudential Real Estate Campbelltown | (02) 4628 0033 | campbelltown@prudential.com.au
Prudential Real Estate Liverpool | (02) 9822 5999 | liverpool@prudential.com.au
Prudential Real Estate Macquarie Fields | (02) 9605 5333 | macquariefields@prudential.com.au
Prudential Real Estate Narellan | (02) 4624 4400 | narellan@prudential.com.au
